The Church Must Stop Excusing Abuse and Start Confronting It

The Church Must Stop Excusing Abuse and Start Confronting It

Many Scriptures speak of justice, protection of the vulnerable, refusing to tolerate or cover up wrongdoing, and calling God’s people to act rightly. These verses can be powerful supports in urging a church not to be an “abuse apologist,” but to become a community of justice and healing. Here are some key ones, and how they can speak into this issue:

Key Scriptures and Their Implications

  1. Isaiah 1:16-17 “Wash yourselves; make yourselves clean; remove the evil of your deeds from before my eyes; cease to do evil,
    learn to do good; seek justice, correct oppression; bring justice to the fatherless, plead the widow’s cause.” Bible Hub+2Central Valley Justice Coalition+2
    • This is a call for active justice, not passive religion. It commands God’s people to correct oppression, defend the afflicted, plead for the vulnerable.
    • In the context of abuse, it means we are not permitted to “look away” or minimize harm; we are called to intervene, speak, act.
  2. Micah 6:8 “He has told you, O man, what is good; and what does the Lord require of you but to do justice, and to love kindness, and to walk humbly with your God?” Sojourners+2Bible Study Tools+2
    • Justice is part of what God requires of His people. It’s not optional or secondary.
  3. Psalm 82:3-4 “Give justice to the weak and the fatherless; maintain the right of the afflicted and the destitute. Rescue the weak and needy; deliver them from the hand of the wicked.” OpenBible+1
    • Again, a mandate to defend those who can’t defend themselves, to oppose injurious behavior.
  4. Jeremiah 22:3 “Thus says the LORD: Do justice and righteousness, and deliver from the hand of the oppressor him who has been robbed. And do no wrong or violence to the resident alien, the fatherless, and the widow, nor shed innocent blood in this place.” OpenBible
    • A warning not to commit injustice ourselves and a command to rescue victims of wrongdoing.
  5. Psalm 146:7 “He executes justice for the oppressed, gives food to the hungry. The LORD sets the prisoners free.” Bible Hub
    • This shows God’s character: He is a God who acts on behalf of the oppressed. His people are called to reflect that.
  6. Colossians 3:19 “Husbands, love your wives, and do not be harsh with them.” HopeFaithPrayer+1
    • A specific instruction against mistreatment in close relationships. “Do not be harsh” can speak against verbal, emotional, or physical abuse.
  7. Matthew 10:26 “So have no fear of them, for nothing is covered that will not be revealed, or hidden that will not be known.” Sarah Titus
    • This encourages transparency and truth. Abuses, lies, cover-ups—God sees them, and they will come to light.

How These Scriptures Speak Against Abuse Apologism

  • They demand accountability over protection of reputation. A church that shelters abusers or silences victims is failing the biblical call to pursue justice.
  • They call for defense of the vulnerable. The repeated emphasis on orphans, widows, the oppressed—people without power—mirrors the condition of many abuse survivors in a religious context.
  • They insist evil must be removed, not hidden. The commands to “remove the evil of your deeds,” “correct oppression,” “do justice” presuppose exposing wrongdoing rather than tolerating it in the name of peace.
  • They show God sides with victims. The character of God is to intervene, rescue, vindicate. If we claim to follow Him, we must follow His pattern.

God has already told us what He requires — not performance, but transformation. Not rehearsed words, but real repentance. The Church cannot merely look holy while injustice and abuse hide behind its walls. We are called to be holy — to be protectors, truth-tellers, healers, and advocates.

So let us rise beyond appearance and become the living reflection of Christ’s love — the kind that protects, restores, and stands unflinchingly with the oppressed. Let our compassion be complete, our mercy be honest, and our justice be unwavering. The world does not need more showy public shows of the Church standing by abusers while leaving victims sidelined and struggling.

It needs a people transformed by truth — people who will not rest until love is safe for everyone.